Six Steps to Offering Specific and Practical Help to a Family Living with Disability

Six Steps to Offering Specific and Practical Help to a Family Living with Disability

Each church will have a unique approach to gathering a care team to support a family in need. In some cases, life groups or community groups will “adopt” a family. Other churches may already have an existing care ministry that can assemble a team. If your church already has teams in place to deliver meals or provide rides, consider coordinating support with them. The information gathered from the point person will help determine the size of the support team and if members need specific skills.

Sometimes, the best “disability ministry” isn’t done on Sunday at church, but in the home of a family living with disability.

When a baby is born, an unexpected illness strikes, or a death in the family occurs, churches are good about providing meals, helping with household chores, and providing emotional support. But caring for a person with a disability is not a single moment in time! There is not always a crisis point that clearly calls for a response. The support needs of a family affected by disability are usually invisible to those looking from the outside, causing families to feel isolated and overwhelmed.

It can be very difficult for families to ask for help when there is nothing in particularbut everything in generalthat is causing stress or stretching margins. Asking a family to figure out one or two things that would be helpful adds even more stress. “Let me know if there’s anything we can do” is therefore unlikely to get a response. For more insight into these needs read, How to Support a Family Living with Disability as a Church.

So how do we proactively offer specific, practical help? By following these six steps.

Step 1: Appoint a Point Person

Choose someone the family trusts to be the primary point of communication with the family. Sharing needs and asking for help is an intimate thing for many people. Having a single trusted person the family can talk to streamlines communication and avoids confusion.

A point person can often recognize needs that the family may not see, express, or believe are worth mentioning.

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